(Hell, even Tinder's own CEO on their profiles ("I'm looking for a good time, not a long time!
"), Reddit gives people a way to bypass the bullshit and just get laid. People tend to lay their situation out a little more than on OKCupid and particularly Tinder," said a 22-year-old headhunter named Sarah who's used /r/dirtyr4r.
Maybe you decide to go the distance with the random girl you've been chatting with on Tinder, maybe it's your old college fling with the lazy eye, maybe it's the WELP you always find in your bed… It's certainly not the most eloquent sentence to say, but sometimes you have to just be like: "I'm lonely and we should bone." Chances are, they'll at least give you pity sex.
And that's about as good as lukewarm pizza: good enough.
Such a difficult task is almost impossible when sex is introduced into the equation, but enough communication can make anything possible.
Here's how to find a rebound that won't make you want to die. He or she is just good enough to hold your attention, but certainly not someone you want to spend your time with.
Then you can soften the blow by offering to buy them coffee or hard liquor.
and Dr Pepper; two rebounds rebounding with each other.
So it pays to be direct with them before things get too serious.
It's not a fun conversation to have at any point of the relationship -- but it's sure as hell easier to tell someone you're not looking for something too serious before things get… Try going somewhere public, like a coffee shop or bar, and telling them that you just got out of something serious and don't want a big commitment.