My single piece of advice to those guys would be this - work out your own issues with women before you come halfway across the world to blow thousands of dollars on girls whose job is to scam you., she was only interested what I could provide. EDIT: I forgot to add in this post that this all happened some time ago.
I am thankfully over that stage of folly in my life and am currently seeing a very cute girl (non-Russian/Ukrainian) who lives close to me.
Or, meet with Russians and Ukrainians in the states - there are quite a lot of them I believe.
Fellow Redditors, please don't make the mistakes I've made.
Online dating sites have been gaining a lot of exposure over the previous couple of years.
More and more couples are being reported to have met on an online dating site.
There are thousands of amazing women out there, and you don't have to spend a lot of money to make it work.
Go out there for a few months and learn about their culture and background.
My buddies showed me the profiles they were interested in and they were filled with girls looking for "sponsors" or offering intimate massages and such crap. Are you seriously expecting genuine emotion and interest from women who throw themselves at foreign men with money via a match-making website?! Hopefully most men don't need to read a cautionary tale to know that "shopping" for a wife and paying an intermediary to help find said wife are idiotic ideas.
I'm sure there's good ones somewhere in that batch but it seems to me people would be better off meeting people in the traditional way (participating in clubs and organizations and making connections that way).i don't get why people don't realize if you REALLY want a true women who will love and care for you don't use bullshit websites like that. Paying someone to do the work for you isn't going to help you in the long run. You think that every slavic women is pouring juices over every western neckbeard that sees them as object? Neither party's behavior is commendable here, but at least the women do it out of desperation. You can spin it any way you want, but you are a pathetic sack of just to have some friends in Ukraine.
I sought my equal,some one who has common interests and goals. I try to keep her spirits high by giving her hope,i pray she will be safe.
These women are not mail order, they are people that want what we want.